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Ask Ruby anything about the site and she will answer straight away. If she cannot help, or you would rather talk to a person, every answer below ends with somewhere real to go.

RRubyOnline · TheDirectory assistant
Hello, I am Ruby, TheDirectory's AI support assistant. I can help with anything to do with TheDirectory: your account, tokens and payments, refunds, photographs, verification or getting paid. What do you need?

Ruby is an assistant, not a moderator. She cannot change your account.

Ruby is our AI assistant. She can explain how anything on the site works, but she cannot see your account, change your balance, approve a photograph or decide a refund. For those, email support and a person will pick it up.

Getting started

Joining, your first listing, and what happens next.

Your account

Signing in, passwords, email and closing an account.

Tokens and payments

Buying tokens, which tokens we take, and what to do if a payment goes astray.

Refunds

What can be refunded, what cannot, and your legal right to cancel.

Photographs and video

Approval, private galleries and access codes.

Getting paid

For advertisers: what you earn, and how it reaches you.

Safety and reporting

Blocking, reporting, and what to do if something goes wrong.

Your information

What we hold, and the rights you have over it.

Talk to a person

Support[email protected]

Accounts, payments, photographs, and reporting another member.

Data protection[email protected]

A copy of your data, a correction, or a deletion request.

Everything else[email protected]

Press, partnerships and general enquiries.

If somebody is in danger

999Police, emergencyIf you or somebody else is in immediate danger.
101Police, non emergencyTo report something that has already happened.
08000 121 700Modern Slavery HelplineFree and confidential, 24 hours, if you are being controlled or coerced.

We are not an emergency service and we cannot intervene in anything happening away from the site. Please contact the police first, then tell us so we can act on the account.

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