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Tokens and XRP: How Paying Works

Everything paid on TheDirectory.uk is paid in tokens. You buy tokens with XRP, a digital currency that settles in seconds, and spend them on messages, calls, live cam, galleries and MyStrip. Sparks are free rewards you earn on the site, and they work a little differently.

Buying tokens

Open Tokens in your dashboard and choose a bundle, from 20 tokens up to 5000. You are shown the exact XRP amount at today's rate and a destination tag. Send that amount with that tag from your own wallet or exchange, and paste the transaction reference.

The site checks the payment on the XRP Ledger, and once it is confirmed, usually within seconds, the tokens are on your balance. If it has not confirmed yet, it is checked again automatically.

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In brief

Open Tokens in your dashboard and choose a bundle, from 20 tokens up to 5000.

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Why XRP

Banks and card companies are often reluctant to process payments in this field, so we chose a payment method that does not depend on them. An XRP payment settles in seconds, its network fee is a tiny fraction of a card payment, and it shows only as a transfer from one address to another, with no merchant name on a bank statement.

You can still use a debit card: buy XRP on an exchange you trust, then send it here. In the UK an exchange has to be registered with the Financial Conduct Authority. Like all crypto, the price of XRP goes up and down and you can lose money; crypto is not covered by the Financial Services Compensation Scheme, and we are not a bank or a financial adviser.

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In brief

Banks and card companies are often reluctant to process payments in this field, so we chose a payment method that does not depend on them.

  • Optional identity check, by a person
  • Every photograph reviewed before it goes live
  • Free to join, free to list

Tokens and Sparks

Your balance has two parts. Tokens are what you bought. Sparks are free rewards: 5 when your registration is approved, one for each day you spend an hour on the site, and more on milestone days of a streak.

Sparks buy things the site itself provides, such as a boost or a membership upgrade. Anything that pays another member, such as a message, a call, a tip or a gallery, is paid with bought tokens only.

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Every photograph here is reviewed by a person before it goes live, and members who have verified their identity carry the Verified tick. Browse who is online now, or join free to message them.

In brief

Your balance has two parts.

  • Optional identity check, by a person
  • Every photograph reviewed before it goes live
  • Free to join, free to list

For providers: payouts

What members spend with you becomes your earnings: everything for your first 28 days, then 70 to 80 percent depending on your membership. Ask for a payout from Earnings once you have at least 80 tokens' worth, to an address you have saved.

A payout needs your identity and age check to be complete. A new or changed payout address opens 24 hours after you save it, which protects you if someone ever gets into your account. You can have one payout waiting at a time; each is checked, then sent from our own wallet, usually within a couple of days.

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In brief

What members spend with you becomes your earnings: everything for your first 28 days, then 70 to 80 percent depending on your membership.

  • Optional identity check, by a person
  • Every photograph reviewed before it goes live
  • Free to join, free to list

Frequently asked questions

How do I buy tokens?

Choose a bundle under Tokens in your dashboard, send the exact XRP amount with the destination tag shown, and paste the transaction reference. The tokens arrive once the ledger confirms the payment, usually within seconds.

What is the difference between tokens and Sparks?

Tokens are bought. Sparks are free rewards. Sparks buy things from the site itself, and only bought tokens can pay another member.

Can I pay by card?

Not directly. You can buy XRP with a debit card on an exchange you trust and send it here.

Is XRP safe?

A payment settles in seconds and cannot be reversed once sent, so always send the exact amount with the tag shown. Its price goes up and down like all crypto, and it is not covered by the Financial Services Compensation Scheme.

When can a provider be paid out?

Once there are at least 80 tokens' worth of earnings and the identity and age check is complete. Payouts are checked and sent by hand, usually within a couple of days.

Why must I wait 24 hours after changing my payout address?

Changing the address and asking for a payout straight away is how account takeovers steal earnings. The wait protects your money.

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